What to Do After Being Served with Divorce Papers in Oklahoma
What to Do After Being Served with Divorce Papers in Oklahoma
Being served with divorce papers can be overwhelming and emotional. Whether you expected it or not, the next steps you take are critical to protecting your rights and your future. At Branch and Hurtt Law Firm, P.C., we help individuals throughout Oklahoma navigate the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Here's what you should do if you've been served.
1. Read the Papers Carefully
The divorce papers, also known as the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage, will include important information such as:
- The name of the court
- The deadline to respond (typically 20 days in Oklahoma)
- Requests made by your spouse (property division, custody, support)
Don’t ignore any section. Every detail can affect your financial interests, parental rights, and future obligations.
2. Mark Your Response Deadline
In Oklahoma, you typically have 20 days from the date you were served to file a formal response, known as an "Answer." Missing this deadline could result in a default judgment, meaning the court could grant your spouse everything they asked for without your input.
3. Consult with a Divorce Attorney
It’s in your best interest to contact an Oklahoma divorce attorney as soon as possible. At Branch and Hurtt Law Firm, P.C., we can help you:
- Understand what your spouse is asking for
- Prepare a strong response
- Assert your rights related to property, custody, or support
- Represent your interests in negotiations or court
You don't have to face this process alone.
4. Gather Important Documents
Start collecting financial records, property deeds, tax returns, bank statements, and any documents related to your children. These records are essential for issues like property division, child custody, and spousal support.
5. Avoid Direct Conflict with Your Spouse
Emotions may run high, but try to avoid confrontation—especially if children are involved. Communications can be used in court, and hostile behavior could hurt your case. It’s wise to let your attorney handle communications if necessary.
6. Follow Temporary Orders
In some cases, the court may issue temporary orders for child custody, visitation, support, or who can remain in the home. Violating these orders can
damage your credibility and your case.
Final Thoughts
Being served with divorce papers is just the beginning of a legal process that can significantly impact your life. You don’t have to go through it alone. The decisions you make now can affect your financial future, your relationship with your children, and your peace of mind.
At Branch and Hurtt Law Firm, P.C., we are here to provide legal assistance to individuals and families throughout Oklahoma. Contact us to discuss your options and protect your rights.